You change all the time as you learn new things
Life changes in a single moment
So why are your allowing yourself to still feel stuck ?
When your working from a place or fear and frustration where does it really get you ?
I want to give you a non business example of this from my life today
Me and my two year daughter were all dress and ready to go out the door as I have some errands I wanted to run today as I have some free time ( none of them where urgent but I just wanted them out of the way ) before going for a overnight stay at my folks home to housesit for them and look after the family cats and dog .
On being out of the room to pick up my handbag from the hallway my little lady decided to take apart her only big toy she has in my flat and got very distressed not being able to put it back together !
On seeing the mess created I could of flipped out but I didn’t – I put my handbag drop on the table , hug my little girl and told her we would put it out together . I got down to lay out in front of the toy as she handed me a single piece at time .
Halfway thought this project she decides to go and get her blanket off the chair and throws it over my back as I was finishing up putting the last parts together on this toy ! To turn her mothers back into a bed , sit and then pony !
In short that was my first lot of plans out the window – I could have of force her to go out , I could have pushed the issue !
What would it have got me ?
An unhappy screaming and grumpy child for the rest of the morning – it was have turned me into a rushing about stressed out mother who was unable to focus on anything important or for all long period of time .
I would have been carrying that frustrated engry into every single task I did for the remainder of the day .
So instead she got to use her mommy as a sit , had a dance with mommy – HELPED mommy put the washing on , then the dishwasher
Sat on mommy lap with her books while mommy listened to a work related live stream and took notes on new tips
Watched her show while money packed up for their night away
Currently we both have a snack of some nan bread before making the bed , taking out the rubbish and set off to NOW do one of those errands today with everyone happy , productive and peaceful!
Frustrated is draining
It leads to doubts
It’s leads to fear and anger if you let it
Sometimes it’s a sign you need help
Your choice is simple dump it or share it to get the guidance you seek
Wishing you a lovely day ladies